repack db questions

Hi, i have searched high and low for the answers to these questions, but could not find anything. if anyone could help out, I would greatly appreciate it. these are for vanilla to wotlk repacks. I use pte repack for vanilla and tbc and StygianCore for wotlk.

1. hunter pet size is too small. I can manually change the size to 1 using gm command, but it changes back every time I enter zone. I have looked everywhere in the SQl db for pet size default but haven't found it yet.

2. loot window opens and closes too quickly. i know this is a minor issue, but to me its quite annoying. again I've looked high and low in the db but cannot find a default time

3. and now for something completely different. I am messing around with a bfa repack but I cannot setup it up so I can connect over a lan. I've forwarded all the necessary ports and changed the ip in the config.wtf, but when i connect, its says connecting then changes to "you've been disconnected". with pre cata repacks, i have no issues connect using my 192.... address. but with bfa it wont connect. i also made sure the version matches, 35662.

again I know this is alot, but a million thanks to anyone who can help out.