If you use hamachi for a wide server for strangers to join than get a virtual private server, also known as a VPS. Hamachi is only good if you play just with your homies, bros, or friends.

And I have to say, Asbonia is right, why would people share about there "disabilities", especially to someone that has a face (maybe not) on the other side of the internet coord to a computer screen, just staring while the tongue slowly licks the lips......